http://simpledominance.com/rituals/24-femdom-rituals/ Simple ways to dominate the man in your life Sat, 27 Feb 2010 15:52:19 -0700 http://wordpress.org/?v=2.8 hourly 1 http://simpledominance.com/rituals/24-femdom-rituals/comment-page-1/#comment-16 Lady Julia Fri, 15 Jan 2010 17:48:05 +0000 http://simpledominance.com/?p=24#comment-16 Thank you for sharing, Carl. Thank you for sharing, Carl.

]]> http://simpledominance.com/rituals/24-femdom-rituals/comment-page-1/#comment-13 Carl Fri, 15 Jan 2010 08:11:42 +0000 http://simpledominance.com/?p=24#comment-13 Dear Lady Julia, I like the idea of rituals, because where I live in "always casual California," we don't often emphasize formality and protocol in many areas of our lives. Practicing symbolic behavior as an outward expression of inward submission has appeal to me, both as a overt act of service, but also as an aid in focusing and reinforcing the abstract with the concrete. While performing a specific task for a type of training activity, I once was instructed to use the toilet as a ritual of submission. There were two specific positions I was permitted to use when performing this ordinary and very humbling function. When sitting was necessary, I was required to turn around and sit facing the toilet, instead of away from it. It's amazing how this simple alteration of an incredibly familiar activity gave it a submissive twist. When sitting was not necessary, I was required to use a much different posture. You may have to use your imagination a bit, but stay with me. I would kneel in front of the toilet, but with my back to it, rather than facing it. I had to scoot back until my bottom was against the bowl, and my feet were on either side of the base. Then I would put my head to the floor in a posture of subservience, with my bottom high in the air hovering above the bowl. I would then tuck my penis into the bowl, and urinate in this awkward position. Some body types might not be able to accomplish it, but perhaps with something elevated to kneel on, it might work. The point was to make the ordinary use of the toilet a humbling act of submission. I found it profoundly memorable. Thanks for letting me chime in! Dear Lady Julia,
I like the idea of rituals, because where I live in “always casual California,” we don’t often emphasize formality and protocol in many areas of our lives. Practicing symbolic behavior as an outward expression of inward submission has appeal to me, both as a overt act of service, but also as an aid in focusing and reinforcing the abstract with the concrete. While performing a specific task for a type of training activity, I once was instructed to use the toilet as a ritual of submission. There were two specific positions I was permitted to use when performing this ordinary and very humbling function. When sitting was necessary, I was required to turn around and sit facing the toilet, instead of away from it. It’s amazing how this simple alteration of an incredibly familiar activity gave it a submissive twist. When sitting was not necessary, I was required to use a much different posture. You may have to use your imagination a bit, but stay with me. I would kneel in front of the toilet, but with my back to it, rather than facing it. I had to scoot back until my bottom was against the bowl, and my feet were on either side of the base. Then I would put my head to the floor in a posture of subservience, with my bottom high in the air hovering above the bowl. I would then tuck my penis into the bowl, and urinate in this awkward position. Some body types might not be able to accomplish it, but perhaps with something elevated to kneel on, it might work. The point was to make the ordinary use of the toilet a humbling act of submission. I found it profoundly memorable. Thanks for letting me chime in!

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