There are a few things on my personal website and blog(s) that I have, in the past, labeled as “Simple Dominance”. They’re nothing earthshatteringly novel. In fact these may all be things that have passed through your mind at one point. I share them in case you, like me, sometimes need something to stir your imagination.
- Physical tease. Movie and TV time can lead to soooo much fun.
- A ritual involving shower time. A simple and easy ritual for you, a very powerful and exciting time for him :)
- Being playful over the phone. There’s nothing quite like seeing a man squirm from pleasurable discomfort.
- Simple card game tease. This has been so much fun for me!
- A tease and denial idea from a friend. Can you tell I like tease and denial activities? :)
- Orgasm control – the eight day plan. Yet another orgasm control, tease and denial idea.
These last three are some general remarks about simple dominance and the average woman.
You’re probably already more in control than you realize.
Most women have long controlled their men in very subtle ways. I think quite often we don’t even realize we’re doing it because at least to some degree, it’s instinctive. If we become more aware of what’s transpiring and at the right moment point out to him what has happened, we can really push our submissive fella’s buttons.
Dominance and the Soft Cloak of Femininity
You don’t have to be a bitch to be in control.
Things I would like to say to my partner if he approached me about dominating him.