(Click above to listen to a recording of this post)
“It’s time for inspection.”
With just a few words he knows I want him naked and kneeling. If he’s dressed, he strips. Nothing sexy or seductive this time; rather more of a hurried process. He kneels with his thighs at a 90 degree angle, his upper body straight, stomach muscles tight, his butt cheeks clenched, his hands clasped behind his back, his eyes open and his gaze fixed ahead. Under no circumstances may he move unless I direct him to do so.
I remind him how excited I am to see him before me in this very vulnerable position. His cock stiffens, but his gaze doesn’t shift to meet my eyes. Straight ahead unless otherwise instructed.
I circle slowly, eyes roving his body. I may caress his beautiful flesh*, perhaps not. The uncertainty excites him almost as much as the touch. Sometimes my fingertips trace the curve of his jaw, the outline of his lips. Cradling his face in my hands. I want him to know that surrender may sometimes be filled with moments of sweet, gentle tenderness. At other times, I cannot resist caressing his behind. Most times I cannot resist caressing his behind :) Usually I remember his cock – my cock – in some way. My fingertips may simply circle the head, having him taste his own precum either from my finger or.. from my tongue. I might sit in front of him and tease him with my feet. A soft, silky cloth may drive him to distraction. So many options..
Soft lips brush against his ear. “You are mine. I own you. I control your body and your mind.” His quick breath signals I have touched a nerve. He knows more is surely to come.
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*If he’s mine, he’s beautiful. All shapes and sizes are beautiful when they belong to you..
I absolutely love the recordings of posts. That really gives it a kick.
Thank you, Web :) I was hoping it might add a bit of dimension to things.
Dear Lady Julia,
One of the things that’s so seductive about your writing, especially when I hear your sexy voice purring it, is that you express your own excitement about dominating him. It’s such a turn on to know that you are turned on.
Thank you!
Thank you, Carl. Knowing that his Lady is really excited about dominated him seems to be important to many submissive men. I am pretty expressive, but if it didn’t come across naturally that I was enjoying myself, I would try to make an effort to communicate those feelings.
I hope you keep this blog going. There isn’t a lot out there about real dominance, done her way. Most of the stuff I find is centred around him and his wants. As if it is assumed she wants what he does and if she doesn’t then there is something wrong with her, she isn’t really dominant.
Laura,
Most of the stuff I find is centred around him and his wants. As if it is assumed she wants what he does and if she doesn’t then there is something wrong with her, she isn’t really dominant.
I completely agree with you.
If we as partners/girlfriends/wives take a dominant role with our fella, then we have a right to expect he will love us enough to consider our point of view. It isn’t all about him or his penis. The way we dominate BY DEFINITION is up to us. Period. As long as we respect his limits and proceed in a caring, respectful manner, why wouldn’t we be the ones to choose how we behave?
absolutely sexy words, but still more sexy voice. something to dream with…
thanks Lady Julia