http://simpledominance.com Simple ways to dominate the man in your life Thu, 18 Feb 2010 04:08:54 +0000 http://backend.userland.com/rss092 en In response to my post, "I Did It My Way", J asked, Why is everything about what the man wants? Everything you wrote is about what it does for him. I can see where it might appear that way, J, but that isn't the case. I very much enjoy controlling his ... http://simpledominance.com/basics/195-whats-in-it-for-the-domme/ A little music, a teasing email, and one sexy voice mail can equal a whole lot of fun: I was lying in bed, thinking of you, listening to this song, and touching. When I could feel myself getting closer to the edge, I decided to phone you and allow you ... http://simpledominance.com/tease-and-denial/171-i-want-you/ When I want to do something sexy for or with my fella, while I keep his desires in mind, I do things my way. Aside from the obvious - I'm the Domme - it makes me more comfortable to know I'm doing it in a way that works for ... http://simpledominance.com/basics/174-i-do-it-my-way/ Even when you are apart, there are plenty of ways to both playfully remind him who's in control and get precisely what you want. "Pick a Number" is easy and fun.  Instruct him via phone, email or text to pick a number between one and  (whatever number you've determined).  Don't allow ... http://simpledominance.com/remote-control/118-remote-control-pick-a-number/ We've all heard others express dissatisfaction with their relationship because their wants and needs are not being met.  Perhaps we've even found ourselves in a similar spot.  While there are many possible reasons for this discontent, I'm convinced that three of the main causes are identifiable and rectifiable:  not knowing ... http://simpledominance.com/basics/125-lists-lists-and-more-lists-2/ There are a few things on my personal website and blog(s) that I have, in the past, labeled as "Simple Dominance". They're nothing earthshatteringly novel. In fact these may all be things that have passed through your mind at one point. I share them in case you, ... http://simpledominance.com/rituals/111-from-the-past/ I hear you milling around in the bathroom, surreptitiously attempting to catch a peek at my body as I shower. Smiling, I wonder if I should pull you into the shower and take you right there, or if I should leave you where you are, wanting and aching. ... http://simpledominance.com/tease-and-denial/81-step-into-the-shower-pet/ John writes: Many of the things that Ladies could do to demonstrate or reinforce their control derive from rituals – both actions and indicators of position. Actions might include having the man assume a particular posture such as having his head bowed or simply his eyes cast down. Bowing ... http://simpledominance.com/a-submissive-mans-point-of-view/69-a-submissive-mans-point-of-view-demonstrating-or-reinforcing-control/ From time to time I will be posting the thoughts of various guest writers. It is my hope this information will offer readers a more well-rounded point of view. If you have something you would like to share, please feel free to contact me. If you would ... http://simpledominance.com/uncategorized/74-guest-writers/ The Inspection Kneel (Click above to listen to a recording of this post) "It's time for inspection." With just a few words he knows I want him naked and kneeling.  If he's dressed, he strips.  Nothing sexy or seductive this time;  rather more of a hurried process.  He kneels with his thighs at ... http://simpledominance.com/kneeling/46-kneeling-the-inspection-position/