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Kneeling: The Contemplative Kneel

  • Posted on January 9, 2010 at 11:34 am

The act of kneeling is very powerful for a submissive man. For many it demonstrates respect, devotion, and the symbolic surrendering of control.

There are a variety of ways for someone to kneel, so I make certain I offer instructions on how I want him to kneel for specific activities.

Whenever I want him to take a few moments to center himself by thinking about his submission and my control, I instruct him to assume what I refer to as the Contemplative Kneel.  He is to kneel sitting back on his shins, his legs together, palms flat on his thighs.  His head is bowed and his eyes closed. He maintains this position for a few moments while he clears his mind of all thoughts other than what I’ve asked him to reflect upon.

Instructing him to kneel each morning upon awakening and every evening before climbing into bed, centering himself by thinking of his commitment to submit, is a very powerful, relationship-strengthening ritual.

Text Messaging

  • Posted on January 7, 2010 at 1:46 am

I really enjoy using text messaging to send unanticipated commands or reminders, especially when he’s at work or with friends (smiles).

“Tonight when you come home, strip off all your clothes the minute the door closes behind you. Kneel, and wait there for my instructions.”

“Are you thinking of me and how wonderful it is that I control your body and your mind?”

“I’m at home lying on my bed, touching myself and thinking of you.”

Something like this adds a bit of excitement and I suppose a bit of edginess because I’ve interrupted his day (perhaps when he is in the company of others) to remind him that he is mine and that I want him. Many submissive men crave regular reminders that we control them and that we enjoy this control. A text message is a simple thing to do, it takes so little time, yet it elicits a big response.

~ Lady Julia