Even when you are apart, there are plenty of ways to both playfully remind him who’s in control and get precisely what you want.
“Pick a Number” is easy and fun. Instruct him via phone, email or text to pick a number between one and (whatever number you’ve determined). Don’t allow him to ask any questions, just remind him to do as you’ve asked. Once he has selected a number, end the discussion. Leaving him puzzled and eager for more information should keep him a little aroused til the next time you speak ;)
After he simmers for awhile, contact him to explain both his assignment and how you determined what it would be.
Perhaps your list will be wholly romantic:
- Choose some romantic songs and send them to me. Be prepared to tell me why you selected each song.
- Create a romantic fantasy to share with me.
- Develop a handwritten list of all the things you love about me. Read it to me when we speak and then drop it in the mail tomorrow.
- Find a truly romantic short story and read it aloud to me tonight.
Since you’re a benevolent Mistress, you could revise the list to add these sentences to the end of each option:
- Do so while stroking your cock. You may not release.
Nothing like creating a win/win situation ;)
Perhaps your list will be more sensual:
- Create a fantasy that includes all the things I find incredibly exciting.
- Purchase a new pair of r*d silk boxers for me and send a photo of you kneeling while wearing them.
- Call me at bedtime and pretend to be a wrong number. I’ll lead the way after that ;)
- Write my name on the top of each thigh, close to the groin area. Use ink. Tell me how grateful you are it isn’t permanent marker ;)
These are just a few things that sound appealing to me. The opportunities for your lists are, of course, endless :)
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“Remote Control” posts offer suggestions for long distance Femdom relationships or for those times when couples are apart.