“Pick a Number” is easy and fun.  Instruct him via phone, email or text to pick a number between one and  (whatever number you’ve determined).  Don’t allow him to ask any questions, just remind him to do as you’ve asked.  Once he has selected a number, end the discussion.  Leaving him puzzled and eager for more information should keep him a little aroused til the next time you speak ;)

After he simmers for awhile, contact him to explain both his assignment and how you determined what it would be.

Perhaps your list will be wholly romantic:

• Choose some romantic songs and send them to me.  Be prepared to tell me why you selected each song.
• Create a romantic fantasy to share with me.
• Develop a handwritten list of all the things you love about me.  Read it to me when we speak and then drop it in the mail tomorrow.
• Find a truly romantic short story and read it aloud to me tonight.

Since you’re a benevolent Mistress, you could revise the list to add these sentences to the end of each option:

• Do so while stroking your cock.  You may not release.

Nothing like creating a win/win situation ;)

Perhaps your list will be more sensual:

• Create a fantasy that includes all the things I find incredibly exciting.
• Purchase a new pair of r*d silk boxers for me and send a photo of you kneeling while wearing them.
• Call me at bedtime and pretend to be a wrong number.  I’ll lead the way after that ;)
• Write my name on the top of each thigh, close to the groin area.  Use ink.  Tell me how grateful you are it isn’t permanent marker ;)

These are just a few things that sound appealing to me.  The opportunities for your lists are, of course, endless :)

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“Remote Control” posts offer suggestions for long distance Femdom relationships or for those times when couples are apart.

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Remote Control – Pick a Number is a post from: Simple Dominance, (c) 2010 Lady Julia. If you enjoyed this post or have something to add, please leave a comment. Remember, feedback typically encourages writers to write more ;)