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Kneeling – The Inspection Position

  • Posted on January 13, 2010 at 5:25 pm

The Inspection Kneel

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“It’s time for inspection.”

With just a few words he knows I want him naked and kneeling.  If he’s dressed, he strips.  Nothing sexy or seductive this time;  rather more of a hurried process.  He kneels with his thighs at a 90 degree angle, his upper body straight, stomach muscles tight, his butt cheeks clenched, his hands clasped behind his back, his eyes open and his gaze fixed ahead.  Under no circumstances may he move unless I direct him to do so.

I remind him how excited I am to see him before me in this very vulnerable position.  His cock stiffens, but his gaze doesn’t shift to meet my eyes.  Straight ahead unless otherwise instructed.

I circle slowly, eyes roving his body.   I may caress his beautiful flesh*, perhaps not.  The uncertainty excites him almost as much as the touch.  Sometimes my fingertips trace the curve of his jaw, the outline of his lips.  Cradling his face in my hands.  I want him to know that surrender may sometimes be filled with moments of sweet, gentle tenderness.  At other times, I cannot resist caressing his behind.  Most times I cannot resist caressing his behind :)    Usually I  remember his cock – my cock – in some way.  My fingertips may simply circle the head, having him taste his own precum either from my finger or.. from my tongue.   I might sit in front of him and tease him with my feet.   A soft, silky cloth may drive him to distraction.  So many options..

Soft lips brush against his ear.  “You are mine.  I own you.  I control your body and your mind.”  His quick breath signals I have touched a nerve.  He knows more is surely to come.

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*If he’s mine, he’s beautiful.  All shapes and sizes are beautiful when they belong to you..

Kneeling: The Contemplative Kneel

  • Posted on January 9, 2010 at 11:34 am

The act of kneeling is very powerful for a submissive man. For many it demonstrates respect, devotion, and the symbolic surrendering of control.

There are a variety of ways for someone to kneel, so I make certain I offer instructions on how I want him to kneel for specific activities.

Whenever I want him to take a few moments to center himself by thinking about his submission and my control, I instruct him to assume what I refer to as the Contemplative Kneel.  He is to kneel sitting back on his shins, his legs together, palms flat on his thighs.  His head is bowed and his eyes closed. He maintains this position for a few moments while he clears his mind of all thoughts other than what I’ve asked him to reflect upon.

Instructing him to kneel each morning upon awakening and every evening before climbing into bed, centering himself by thinking of his commitment to submit, is a very powerful, relationship-strengthening ritual.